You all have them: that buddy, that pal you’d describe as the perfect guy. Maybe he’s a fashion designer, an executive, a model; he makes you laugh as a stand-up comic; he awes you as an artist in makeup or photography or he inspires you with his architecture. His eclectic tastes and talents transcend typical and yet, you just can’t figure out why he’s still single. Why hasn’t Mr. Right found Mr. Right in these perfect specimens of our queer community? Why, indeed. So, in the spirit of matchmaking, because we at Frontiers would like all of you to find love, we’ve handpicked 10 of the most eligible of eligible from your submissions. From bad boys to book worms, we’ve found the most seductively charming needles in our sprawling pink haystack.

INTRO BY JOCELYN LOREN

PHOTOS BY JOSEPH ALEXANDER • GROOMING BY THERESA HUANG & CHRISTINA GUERRA • STYLING BY MARC LITTLEJOHN

Jim Coleman, 45

Hollywood
Occupation: Photographer, bellman/valet
E-mail: jc@light1studio.com

Ideal first date: The first date is a great way to find out about a person. So if you ask me out, I would like to see what you really like to do. If I asked someone out, it would be very casual—a picnic, a hike or a movie.

Little-known facts: I am an active person, so I love the outdoors. One thing I miss since moving to Los Angeles is nude sunbathing at the beach.

My perfect guy: I am attracted to men that are comfortable in their own skin. I am a man and we are visual beings, so looks are nice. But I am looking for an inter-connection, someone that I can relate to with a good heart.

What his friends say Philip Bailey: “James ‘Jim’ Coleman is a great guy that I have known for the past 11 years in both Hawaii (where we both lived on Maui) and now in Los Angeles. I've come to know Jim as a stalwart, hardworking, generous and outgoing friend. Jim's interests are varied, including his passion for art and photography, as well as his passion for the outdoors and the sea. L.A. can be a hard place to meet new friends and lovers; James should be one of the people that you meet along the way.”

Nate Green, 27

East Hollywood
Occupation: Graduate student at UCLA (Masters of Architecture)
E-mail: nate.cant.dance@gmail.com

Ideal first date: First dates should be uncomplicated, comfortable and full of good conversation. I love trying new things: foods, experiences, music, activities—any sort of adventure. Most of all, I want to get to know you as a person and enjoy your company.

Little-known facts: I met my first boyfriend on my Mormon mission in Paraguay. I've been told I'm such a bad dancer that it’s adorable. I want to have my own design studio when I graduate. I built and designed most of the furniture and art in my house. Getting turned down by a guy gives me confidence. I speak Guaraní, an obscure Native American language. I'm the most curious person you'll ever meet—I have to try everything once. The coolest job I've had was working at The Apple Store.

My perfect guy: The perfect guy for me is sophisticated yet uncomplicated, strong but sweet. I tend to go for men around my age or a few years older who are masculine, around my height (6 feet), and have dark features. Ultimately, age and a specific face/body feature aren't a big deal if we connect on other levels. I would choose handsome and confident over a six-pack; I would choose ambitious over rich; and I would choose interesting and charming over someone trying to be super perfect. Let's have fun and get to know each other—but know that someday my perfect guy would want to settle down.

What his friends say Christen Madsen II: “Whether drunk in a Silver Lake bar or at LACMA, Nate can fit in anywhere, yet never diminishes his distinct, quirky personality. Perpetually optimistic, he views every moment as an opportunity worth seizing. Nate is an epicure who loves McDonald’s, and a Brahms-lover who idolizes Britney Spears. He maintains an impeccable and urbane apartment yet doesn't care if his clothes always match. Always fun, this handsome, well-educated, articulate, affable guy is the total package.”

Vince King, 41

Beverly Center / Fairfax District
Occupation: Internet product management
E-mail: BachelorVince@gmail.com

Ideal first date: An ideal date would be doing a casual activity together where we can see if we have mutual chemistry, rather than going on a date that feels like a job interview. Perhaps a visit to The Grove or a hike in Runyon Canyon or even going bowling! Once we have confirmed that the chemistry is there, I'd like to have a romantic dinner, where we really get to know each other.

Little-known facts: I am a native Californian—born and raised in San Francisco, college in the Bay area, nine years in San Diego (except during grad school), and then L.A. for the past 10 years. One of my guilty pleasures is watching reality TV competitions such as American Idol, America’s Next Top Model and Project Runway. I love to travel; I've been to Hawaii, South America, the Mediterranean, Mexico and the Baltic in the last three years alone!

The perfect guy: He can honestly say, "I love my life, but having Vince in it makes it even better." He is equally comfortable spending time alone with me and socializing in groups. My perfect match is around my age, intelligent, successful, honest, easygoing, happy, romantic and healthy (physically, mentally and emotionally). He must not do drugs or smoke. Physically, I'm attracted to tall, good-looking, clean-cut, masculine, muscular and fit guys with a great smile.

What his friends say Fabrice Tasendo: “I've had the privilege of knowing Vince for almost 10 years now. He's an amazing guy. As a Stanford graduate, he is very accomplished in life, independent, good-looking, and driven. He travels a lot, mostly for fun, and is very easygoing. He leads a drama-free life and you can count on him for great pool parties! He is the definition of ‘husband material.’ Definitely one of the most eligible bachelors I know.”

William Mungall, 36

Melrose Heights
Occupation: Architectural designer and associate at Landry Design Group
E-mail: WMarchdesign@gmail.com

Ideal first date: I prefer a low-pressure date, an easy to get to know each other setup: walking and talking somewhere simple like The Grove, some food, maybe ice cream with spontaneous stops without a strict agenda.

Little-known facts: I made my good friend of 17 years and her wife's dream of having a family come true; I fathered beautiful twins, a girl and a boy who are now 1 1/2 years old and just learning to say "Papa."

The perfect guy: When I close my eyes and think of the perfect guy, he smiles a lot. He has a strong sense of himself and his surroundings, has a zest for life, and a drive to succeed.

What his friends say Michal Gregus: “He is handsome, caring, successful, comfortable in his own skin in any situation, open to new and exciting adventures, has a big... heart, and a wink/smile combo that is hard to resist.”

Noseph Trinh, 28

The Grove / Beverly Wilshire
Occupation: Freelance makeup artist at MMK Management
E-mail: noseph.trinh@gmail.com

Ideal first date: That serendipitous nondate encounter that leads to an evening full of silly laughter and flirtatious getting-to-know yous. You know, the essential beginnings of any amazing romantic chick flick. However, since this approach is a bit more formulaic, I'll go with this: He picks me up just in time for our dinner reservation; we banter and laugh over each course; the final course is a theater experience polished off with making plans for our next rendezvous—oh yeah, and a kiss, etc…

Little-known facts: I don't drink. Not because I'm recovering from anything, but rather because I'm allergic. I don't have an aversion to happy lushes as made evident by my dearest friends—notice I said happy as well as dearest. Also, my ultimate stress reliever is breaking a hefty sweat through dance—this isn't a requirement of a potential date, but surely a plus if we can reenact a bit of Dirty Dancing.

My perfect guy: Historically, I've had more luck with men closer or a bit older in age to myself. I'd prefer someone taller than my 5’8” stature. You don't have to be a gym rat, but at least have an active lifestyle with a fit mind. Men with darker features tend to catch my eye; politeness and a good heart, however, will maintain my attention. Oh, and a great sense of humor and the ability to laugh at my stupid jokes is a must!

What his friends say Tarek Zohdy: “Noseph is one of those guys that transcend definition. He's strong-willed, but never rude; he's intelligent, but not arrogant; and he's ambitious, but never malicious. He's one of my best friends, with an East Coast mentality and a West Coast attitude.”

Teddy Margas, 40-ish

West Hollywood
Occupation: Actor/stand-up comic with the Queers Of Comedy and, to make money, I manage the Greek restaurant at the Farmer's Market at The Grove.
E-mail: teddymargas@aol.com

Ideal first date: A handsome, well-dressed, rich man picks me up at my hotel after spending the day lavishing me with clothes from Rodeo Drive. As he shows up in his tuxedo, he pulls out a very large jewelry box. My eyes light up. As I go to touch the piece of jewelry, he snaps the box shut, almost getting my hand. I throw my head back and laugh, happy that he has a sense of humor. In the elevator on our way to the roof for our helicopter ride to San Francisco for dinner, I say, "If I forget to tell you later, I had a really good time tonight."

Little-known facts: I'm a twink in a bear costume.

My perfect guy: I am really turned on by chemistry. I wish I knew what attracts me to some guys and not to others, but I don't. All I know is, when we click, we click. I want to meet a cool, interesting guy without attitude. Just someone who likes to have fun, laugh, entertain, cook and play. I'm not against anything, really. I love honesty. Just be honest. Whatever you're into—if you just want to hook up, an LTR or what have you—let me know. Of course you should be funny, fun, playful and never take yourself too seriously.

What his friends say Rob Nolan: “Teddy is one of those people whose energy you really can't explain. He is a genuine, lovable guy you crave being around. Being one of his best friends isn't always easy because you know when you share him with other friends they are going to vie for his attention. He keeps his true friends close to his heart and protects them with everything he has. Teddy is one of the most genuine and honest people I have met. He does it all with love and laughter.”

Art Saldana, 36

Franklin Hills
Occupation: Artist, photographer, fashion designer, waiter
E-mail: abintra12@yahoo.com

Ideal first date: I imagine hiking in Griffith Park with someone special while having a great conversation that seems like it will never end, then catching a late lunch at some restaurant where we could sit outside and enjoy the on-coming night before jumping on my motorcycle for a night ride.

Little-known facts: I love motorcycles. I have only driven motorcycles; I don't even know how to drive a car. I was raised a good Christian boy and I tend to still be good right down to the soul, no matter how hard I try to break that. Sometimes with my free time, I volunteer at a hospice for terminally ill patients.

My perfect guy: I am looking for someone to have fun with in my life: someone outgoing, witty, and beautiful on the inside; someone with a sense of individual style. I am attracted to men who are creative, inspiring, smart and loving. I am looking for someone masculine and active—not afraid of PDA. I love tattoos and piercings and I'm a sucker for pretty eyes.

What his friends say Carrie Talamantez: “Art has a childlike quality that is not immature but retains that sense of wonderment about life with infectious optimism, openness and positivity that unfortunately is so often forgotten. He is a natural seeker always looking for ways to expand creatively, emotionally and psychically. Yeah, I feel one day some guy will be the lucky one and take him off the market once and for all, but he must be absolutely extraordinary.”

Marc Cartwright, 33

West Hollywood
Occupation: Photographer
E-mail: LosAngelesPhoto@yahoo.com

Ideal first date: We would drive out to Malibu to have great conversation at a local cafe. After getting to know one another a little better, we both decide that we want to go to the beach for a picnic and grab some snacks from the store. After the sun sets and a wonderful first date, we head back to the city.

Little-known facts: I appeared on a teen romance novel book cover.

My perfect guy: Someone that is conservatively styled with a bit of an edge, charismatic, adventurous, creatively and culturally aware, confident and strong-minded yet modest, grounded and debonair yet not "too cool" to be a dork if the mood fits.

What his friends say Andrea Flores: “He is a great catch! He is talented, creative, ambitious, hilarious and extremely loyal to the people that are close to him. He is not someone that is letting life pass him by. I am always impressed by how proactive he is in his career, taking risks and changing his approach to his work to never stay stagnant. The one thing that someone may not know about him is how truly loving and giving he is with that special person in his life. He would treat them how he wants to be treated—with admiration and respect! I am honored to have him in my life.”

Adam Cohen, 36

West Hollywood
Occupation: Partner at Universal Media Network, LLC and consultant/director of accounts at Mulholland Drive Entertainment
E-mail: AdamLA2008@yahoo.com

Ideal first date: I love when I am asked out on a date. I am usually the one asking, so... my ideal date is being asked out and have the guy choose the place—I love surprises. He’d pick me up at my home. The date could be a walk on the beach, bowling, dinner, a hike, or roller-skating; these are a few of the things I love doing on a first date. I am usually the guy who makes the plans but when another guy does it for me it is exciting.

Little-known facts: I love going to movies by myself. It is my escape and $12 getaway for the goings on of my day. I love to travel as well. I am the kind of guy who on Tuesday can decide to jump on a plane that Friday to Europe, Mexico, etc, just to get away. I love to throw small dinner parties with good friends and family at my home and cook for them. I'm also a reality dream junkie and have always wanted to be a reality personality.

My perfect guy: I am usually drawn to tall, athletic, surfer-looking guys. I like guys who are fit, athletic, masculine, outgoing, balanced, educated, professional, passionate, honest, kind and have an overall sense of who they are and where they want to go in life. Guys I am interested in are usually around my age or younger.

What his friends say Kim Waite: “Aside from being incredibly handsome and having a great sense of style, Adam is someone who embraces life with great joy and passion. He is the one person who I can count on to always lift me up, make me laugh and smile. He has a great playful side and is always up for an adventure. Adam is always supportive and encourages others to never settle and get the most out of what life has to offer. It is his spirit and energy that make him such an amazing person.”

Nickolas James, 28

West Hollywood
Occupation: Manager of development, E! Studios
E-mail: nickolasrj@gmail.com

Ideal first date: Dinner on a first date is a no for me because I would spend the whole time worrying that I have food in my teeth. My ideal first date would be something active: a trip to Runyon, a lap around Griffith Park, a bike ride at the beach—that kind of thing. Active bodies lead to active minds.

Little-known facts: No one can ever spell my name correctly. I changed the spelling when I was in third grade with Ms O'Connor. There were two other boys with the name Nicholas and I decided that carrying my books to school in a Kuala bear backpack didn’t give me enough flair so I threw temper tantrums and threatened emancipation until my mother gave in and changed the spelling.

My perfect guy: I look for less drama and more substance in men. My ideal guy is outgoing, athletic and engaging. He'll call me on my sh*t and tell me when I am being absurd. He is someone who is just as comfortable spending Friday night at home as he is with dancing on the bar at Fubar. An inviting smile, pretty eyes and a smoking body never hurt either.

What his friends say Bret Schukis: “Nick James (simply said as one name like Madonna or Cher) handles his own period. This boy is a closeted bi-costal resident, but far from ‘closeted’ or ‘bi’ in any other sense. Whether it is man or men, peach martinis or lemon drops (never beer), Barry's boot camp versus Pilates, shopping to only return it all, or even eating carbs, he does it all with cute sneakers and a smile. His extraverted life and candid style leads Nick James' life as one to be admired. Lastly, trust and believe his social filters are off so be ready to keep up or throw down.”